Set Your Goals
Do you have a goal in
mind? Once you attain the mindset for you to attain financial freedom,
its time to set your personal goals, both financially and in
relationships.
But first, what are
goals? Why should you set them? Having a goal helps give you
direction of where to move and how to recognize when you reach a major
milestone. The following story shows the importance of setting goals.
"Ukey is a fresh
graduate who is bonded to a government agency for four years. Knowing
that he will not want to stay after the 4 years, he failed to set a
goal for himself in his work. Instead, he set other goals for himself
outside his work, in relationship, family, friends and financial
freedom. Over the past 3 years, he grew increasingly unhappy in his
work, and his performance at work remains above average.
However, he currently
has a good relationship with his girlfriend and family, made and
maintain close friendships with his good friends, and currently has
sufficient passive income to maintain financial security.
He has recently created
a goal in his work, to make the new maintenance contract one that will
reduce workload on his colleagues to a manageable level. We'll see how
far he moves along his new goal."
By setting a definite
goal, a person will know where he wants to go, and try to achieve the
goal. Even if he doesn't hit the goal, he will go somewhere nearer the
goal then he was originally. From there, he can adjust his strategy
and finally reach the goal after several iterations.
On the contrary, by not
setting a goal, you won't know where you wanna go. There is a saying
that goes:-
If you don't know where
you wanna go, any road may take you there.
My question is whether
the place the road takes you to is where you wanna be? Remember the
story of the ugly duckling? If the ugly duckling doesn't know what he
wanna be (a swan), he will continue being the odd one out, the
underachiever of the gang. Even if he becomes a very successful duck,
will he be happy? When deep in his heart, he is a swan? The purpose
of setting a goal is to prevent yourself from becoming successful in
something you don't want, and does not make you happy in the end.
Seeing the difference
between having a definite goal and not having any, is it time for you
to set your own goal in your work as well as your life? |